The Total Package has a hell of a career going, but don’t you for a second suggest that The Total Package would be a workaholic—The Total Package is a family man.

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And that’s just her public persona—at home, she’s fantastic in bed, a spectacular cook, loving, selfless, and devoted. He’s immersed in a fierce battle between his superhuman standards and his terror of being 40 and single—because 40 and single is not supposed to be part of The Total Package’s story.

Oh and she also speaks French, plays tennis, sings beautifully, reads voraciously and she’s a history buff. As long as anyone can remember, The New Lease On Life Guy had been dating his longterm girlfriend.

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To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.

Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.I think most people generally like to date someone near their age. The younger they are, the smaller the age gap and the older, the older the age gap. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Yes, the woman fit for The Total Package will be the ultimate icing on his cake of perfection.He imagines her often—gorgeous as they come, she turns heads; bursting with charm and charisma, she lights up every room she enters; she’s a brilliant rising star in her career and beloved by her many friends.The younger they are, the smaller the age gap and the older, the older the age gap. I would guess though, the much younger you go, the harder it will be to find someone (and the same with older as well believe it or not).