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Maybe most significant, it is asking dating sites to be more proactive, issuing alerts to members who have been in contact with someone using a fraudulent profile.

and e have online dating safety tips as a link on their home pages and mention safeguarding finances, and both use some of the techniques suggested by AARP.

Amy Krouse Rosenthal, a Chicago author who wrote a heart-wrenching column called "You May Want to Marry My Husband" while battling ovarian cancer, died March 13, 2017 at the age of 51. (Kevin Nance / For the Chicago Tribune) A Chicago author fighting ovarian cancer who may not have long to live has offered up her husband in a tear-jerking essay: "If you're looking for a dreamy, let's-go-for-it travel companion, Jason is your man."Amy Krouse Rosenthal described her illness and her marriage in a "Modern Love" column published Friday in the New York Times entitled "You May Want to Marry My Husband." It didn't take long for her essay to go viral online.

Rosenthal, 51, wrote that she's gone weeks without real food and falls asleep mid-sentence because of the morphine she needs.

The iconic scene from Disney's "Lady and the Tramp" paints the picture of finding true love over a shared meal.

Two lives meeting at the center of a spaghetti noodle, and that's amore! Fast forward to the Tinder age, when recent polls have shown that first dates over dinner are being replaced with simple public meetings over coffee."You used to meet someone through friends or through someone from the neighborhood. "No matter where you go, everything now is like one big blind date, and no one likes that."Feinstein said there is so much misrepresentation on online dating sites that people don't want to invest much time or money until they make sure the potential matches they are meeting are legitimate.

Fellow matchmaker Stef Safran sees the same shift."What's disappointing to me is the casualness of dating in general," said Safran.

"I think that dinner on the first date is going to go away. Nowadays, so many people are rejoining the dating market at different life stages.

It cites an FBI statistic that reports romance scams cost Americans more than million during the last six months of 2014."Individual scammers and highly organized groups attempt to steal hearts and wallets from online dating site users every day," said Doug Shadel, an AARP Fraud Watch Network expert.