If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.

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Invite your guy and his crew to hang in a big group.

That way you can get a feel for what he's normally like around his buddies and it'll let you both relax a bit more.

We're usually pretty open to new ideas." —Adrian B."Please don't critique or be too harsh about someone's sexual performance the first time you hook up with him.

Things are new and you aren't familiar with what the other likes yet. Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.

Indicate which season(s) you are wishing to meet and start browsing for suitable matches. Later, talk on the telephone and perhaps organise a first meeting or date. Who knows, one of your new friendships may grow into lasting happiness.

"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.

Until you've had time to communicate about that stuff, it's impossible to weigh them against your former boyfriend of three years." —Greg B. If you guys have a great time, you're both left wanting more." —Greg G." title="" src="data:image/gif;base64, R0l GODlh AQABAIAAAAAAAP///y H5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://hips.hearstapps.com/cos.h-cdn.co/assets/cm/14/25/539fc09300903_-_cos-10-couple-playing-ping-pong-de-mscn.jpg?

resize=768:*" /"First dates are best kept quick and noncommittal for both parties—unless you've known each other for a while. Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.

Dainty foods (read: salads) seem to have a low correlation to fun and enjoyment.

First few dates, make the food good, simple and completely forgettable so you can focus on each other." —Max S.

Don't ask your friends to tell you everything they can because you can end up with a tainted view of what to expect.