Dating outside religion
For those willing to take on the challenge, the rewards can be huge.In his book, , anthropologist Edward Burnett Tylor defines culture as “that complex whole which includes knowledge, belief, art, morals, law, custom and any other capabilities and habits acquired by man as a member of society.” Dating within your culture does not guarantee a slam dunk in compatibility.
We find that in Spain and in Belgium, the party divide is quite intense and competes with these other very salient social ethnic divides.
But if you're talking about kissing people you date, be cautious in how you use this form of affection.
The most important thing not to do in a relationship where two people come from different backgrounds is to use your cultural values as the standard for what is “right” or to your advantage in a way that diminishes your partners lived experiences.
It isn’t fair to compete with your mate in a way that they aren’t cut out for, especially when you know you are wrong.
In relationships where people come from different backgrounds, more compromise is often needed to maintain the highest level of compatibility.
If two people truly are in love, they will go above and beyond what is necessary to transcend their culture and make things work, often by creating a new and improved lifestyle in the process.
If your partner was raised with working women, it isn’t fair to expect her to keep up a home in the same fashion as your female relatives who were stay-at-home mothers, knowing she may not have the time, energy, or training, to do so.
In these types of situations, it’s best to be patient with one another, clearly express lifestyle goals, and work together to get there.
When it comes to relationships, some feel it is best to date someone who has the same morals, taste, traditions, and beliefs as them, but rest assured it is quite okay to step outside of your comfort zone and explore someone from a different background as a potential partner.