But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail.

When I just throw it all out the window and dismiss it as "crazy," it makes it easier to deal.

We don't really think women are insane, we just say it so we can be done thinking about their antics and move on. Guys are happy to help out their girlfriends with emotional issues.

The worst is if your younger sister or best friend is hot, we'll check her out too.

Sometimes We Like Being Told What to Do One of the reasons we won't commit is because we don't want to be told what to do.

Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.

You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay.

While we played, security goons watched closely, and my dad could tell that we were nervous: "Just act like you are supposed to be here, and they won't ask any questions." Sure enough, it worked. Once I've made it into bed with a girl, no way I'm going to let my stupid mouth wreck things.

In fact, we've most likely made it to this point in spite of my mouth.

The best thing to do is to act like you have some experience, and not question anything.