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The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.

You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.

Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.” This is the double-edged sword of online dating.

You have far more access to singles than ever before. Which means that there’s also far more COMPETITION.

He has no idea what to write in his first email to you, and he’s competing with hundreds of men for your attention.

Be patient, write a better profile, and learn not to get so frustrated with men, and you can enjoy online dating a lot more. I get a kick out of all the questions on sites like yahoo answers that are some variation of “She wants to do me with a strap-on?! While it’s definitely true that many men and women are shocked by the idea of reversing roles in this manner, there are still plenty of singles who would love to meet a partner to make their pegging fantasy come true with a strap-on dildo and a dominant woman who knows how to wield it.So if you’re one of these men who is watching lesbian strap-on porn or who dreams of seeking out a strap-on femdom, know that there are sites catering to you and the women who want to have strap-on sex with you.In case it’s not obvious: Demonstrate creativity, intelligence and a great sense of humour • Be totally different to anything she may have received before • Be obviously unique and not a cut-and-paste job • Show that I’ve read her profile and absorbed facts about her • Not be needy!I have dedicated an entire volume of my bestselling audio series, Finding the One Online to how to write emails just like this.Online dating may be a jungle, but it’s a jungle with a LOT of single people, so it’s best to learn how to master the process.