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He does this because He believes the best plan for you is to “conform you to the image of his Son” (Rom.
), not to just give you what you want when you want it. Dating while separated is also sinful because it deceives the person you want to date by giving them the impression that you are legally and biblically available. Wisdom is the application of God’s Word for skillful living.
They need the community and their civic leaders to help them find housing, work, medical treatment and so much more.
Essentially, if you can prove that the relationship did not begin until after you separated, it hurts your former spouse’s claim that your boyfriend or girlfriend caused the marriage’s end.
Beyond these actions, dating can have an effect on any post-separation support you may receive.
You’ve moved out, gotten your own place, and you’re starting to think about moving on with your life.
You’re starting to notice other people when you go out and want someone to spend time with, someone who appreciates your company. While this may sound like a good idea, there are several problems to consider.
North Carolina law still permits an action for “alienation of affection” against a third party whom the plaintiff feels is responsible for ending the marriage.
Even if you did not begin dating someone until after the date of separation, a suspicious former spouse may see the new boyfriend or girlfriend as the cause of the marriage’s end and bring a court action.
And if necessary, He’ll use civil authorities and a disagreeable spouse to achieve this purpose (Pr. Dating under these circumstances is fraudulent because you are presenting yourself as being free---when you are not (Mk. It’s also unloving because you’re leading the person you date into your own tsunami before your reconstruction and healing has begun (Mk. For these reasons and more it is important to remember… Paul counseled the Corinthians that although something may be legal it does not mean it will be beneficial (1 Cor. Solomon urges us to persistently pursue wisdom so that we can obtain favor from the Lord (Pr. Without wisdom we “injure” ourselves and others (Pr. I generally counsel Christians who have recently gone through a divorce to wait at least 6 months, preferably a year after their divorce is final to begin dating again. Depending on the circumstances, even more time may be beneficial.
This is wise because there needs to be a season after the divorce for self-assessment, emotional healing, spiritual growth and time for your children to heal (if applicable).
The scars of divorce are still felt in my family decades later when my own kids ask questions like: “How come Grandma and Grandpa aren’t married anymore? For these reasons and more, the Lord sets boundaries in His Word to protect His children from the seismic effects of the marriage covenant being broken. Since the purpose of dating in our culture is to find a spouse, then biblical reasoning tells us that both parties need to be legally and biblically free before dating.
A survey of the Scriptures reveals God’s heart regarding divorce and some boundaries He has put in place to protect Christ-followers from it’s destruction. I believe God’s Word provides two compelling reasons Christ-followers should NOT date while separated and delay dating for a season after their divorce is finalized. Thus, dating while still married to someone else is a type of emotional adultery because you are not keeping the vow you made to God to share you’re your heart and your body only with your spouse. This becomes a real temptation when your spouse has already broken their vow and moved on because your flesh will want to do the same as well.
For “alienation of affection”, a defendant can prove that no love and affection existed between the husband and wife.