They were from Ghana, Nigeria, Cameroon, Sierra Leone, Kenya, Uganda, Zambia, Tanzania, Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa.

Disappointingly, the few that are available tend to date and marry people of other races usually to get legal status.’ Again due to lack of trust for western-based African women who are generally perceived to be arrogant, argumentative, disrespectful, non-submissive and dishonest or unfaithful, other men go to look for women partners in their various home countries.

Tribalism/Ethnocentrism: Some African families have “blacklisted” certain tribes and/or countries, and would just not tolerate the idea of their children getting married to someone from these “blacklisted” societies.

Hence, the need for them to capitalize on their young age, looks, and fertility to get the kind of man that they want.

For religious, academic or educational, as well as career or occupational reasons some young women dedicate less time to socializing and searching for that “decent man.” By the time they realize the need to have families, age had already caught up with them; and as looks or beauty and fertility commonly decrease with age, they end up in a position where attracting men becomes a bit more difficult.

Why are many African women abroad now seriously looking for husbands or serious partners? Of the 25 women who agreed to be intensively interviewed, 15 were single, 5 were in serious relationships, and 5 were married.

25 out of the 150 initial respondents, then willingly and confidently provided profound information on single African women abroad.

I’m all about the underdog coming back for the win, and it just seems the good guy ends up being the one who loses to these generic techniques some greasy dude fine tunes from using over and over again. Honestly, if you can get past this, you’ll have a leg up on the other idiots out there. Be a gentleman Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but . Be creative You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her. I’ve been watching one of my good buds Danny pursue his girl right.

After all, being genuine is where you excel the most. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be the one in charge. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date, and let her order first. Be complimentary On our first date, I told her “You look so beautiful.” I then told her how great she looked when I saw her without makeup the night before. While she later revealed to me that she had been testing me to see if I would still like her without makeup, I simply saw a girl who didn’t have enough time because she just got done at the gym. [Update: Danny Booko is now engaged to Nia, the current Miss USA 2014.] He took her on a hike in Malibu, CA to waterfalls and then took her to this place called M Café complete with swans.

The Reasons so Many African Women Abroad are Single.

Perceived shortage of decent men in the West: Almost all the women interviewed shared the opinion that it is quite uncommon to come across single men with good character these days.

Those in the Prime Years group (21-25, 22%), Vital Years group (26-30, 27%), Borderline group (31-35, 32%), and the Danger Zone group (36-40, 19%).