Allow them their space The INTP personality type tends to be a private person and is uncomfortable among large, faceless crowds.This is because of the Introversion aspect of their psychological makeup which makes them look inward for making sense of the world and all that is happening in their lives.

Considering their bent for logic and problem-solving, it is more likely that you will be able to reach out to them this way rather than launching into an emotional tirade or getting overly-dramatic about your hurt feelings.

Remember, INTPs understand the world of reason and thoughts better than that of feelings and emotions, no matter how overpowering and important the latter are to you.

At such times they may appear to be emotionally unavailable to you or seem unresponsive to your needs.

However it is important that you allow them this freedom and space so that they can come back to you emotionally recharged and better able to love you with all the depth of their hearts.

Thus it would be a good idea not to force them to meet large groups of people or take them to venues where there are huge crowds of unknown people.

In fact on occasions your INTP partner may even withdraw into his/her shell and seem to be lost in their private world.Or your INTP boyfriend may be thinking over and over why you paid for the lunch date instead of allowing him to foot the bill.This excessive analysis might grate on your nerves sometimes but try to have patience with your INTP partner since they need to understand thoroughly what is going on with their lives before they can fully accept and be happy in the relationship.TIP: Read this book which has 2000 questions you can ask your partner.Know your partner's secret desires and hidden fears with this book!So whether you are wondering which bank to approach for a mortgage or how to organize a Christmas bash for family and friends, you can count on your INTP partner for coming up with the best plans and the necessary research even if he/she may not be up for much running about.