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is where marriage minded Jewish singles come to find Jewish Matchmaking and true love.Our unique approach in creating a Jewish dating site has resulted in many Success Stories.In our "crazybusy" adult lives, dating has become extremely speedy and contrived with people "pencilling in" business-like Starbucks rendezvouses that are not dissimilar from job interviews or writer-directors auditioning actors to play the leading roles in their screenplays entitled, "This Is What I Think My Life Should Look Like." After college - take note, young people - organically getting to know fellow humans outside of work, bars, and a few social activities is becoming increasingly difficult.
Some people feel as if technology is helping them connect but it can also be argued that Facebook and Twitter delude people into believing they are interacting when they actually are not receiving the tactile affection they crave, that people construct flagrantly inauthentic facades when social networking and dating online, and that 95% of communications are non-verbal - thus 95% of communications are lost through text messaging and emailing. " At the risk of offending all, I shall not even mention Lori Gottlieb's provocative New York Times Magazine article "Does a More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?
" wherein she argues that gender equality can be detrimental to a couple's sex life; specifically, Ms.
Johnson in "We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love" wherein damsels in distress seek to be saved by knights in shining armor, and/or "soulmates" believe that the apple of their eyes are the missing parts of them (cf. Such myths would constitute matrices of assumptions that we all agree upon regarding the etiquette of courtship.
In our post-post modern information age, all of these assumptions regarding gender roles have been cast aside.
We have found that when it comes to looking for a wife or husband, even highly assimilated Jews prefer to ‘keep it in the family,’ meaning that if finding a Jewish mate is as easy as finding a non-Jewish one, they will prefer to search through a Jewish pool of candidates first.
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In my workshops and on my DVDs I discuss what Mary Ainsworth called "ambivalent-insecure attachment" and "avoidant-insecure attachment" observing that some of my patients have a difficult time trusting that others will not abandon or betray them; thus, they sabotage their relationships before the other person can leave them, which would re-open their primal abandonment/betrayal wounds; or they don't/can't fully ever commit; or they learn how to create hardened facades (false selves) so that they can shrug their shoulders and say "Whatever..." as they continue to blame others and abnegate responsibility for their inauthentic ways of showing up as relationship after relationship implodes or conveniently FADES OUT.
The problem is as follows: the most propitious tools for making relationships succeed - authenticity and authentic communications - may not be the most alluring traits when dating.
Thus, when we date we must be mindful of our own expectations and assumptions, our own projections, our own ways of communicating, our own psychological baggage, and our own attachment dynamics, so that we can show up authentically, make honest commitments, communicate with the utmost possible compassion and integrity, and learn how to grow intimately with another human being over a period of time.
Apps like Tinder have redefined the way couples hook up, either for short-term fun or long-term relations.
In 1996 he developed JDate with partner Alon Carmel, running the company until he left in 2006.