I'm outside NYC in Central Jersey, and there's a lot of people on that site around here. And for 2 girl's I met on a sex site and met in person for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike, they actually did seem like the types of girls who'd "meet a random ass guy on a sex site and meet for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike." TIP: Girls can have the need for sex without a relationship or getting money. You pay for it one way or another be it money or a date. If you can't handle the truth don't respond to my posts. If a girl is real, she isn't meeting anyone in a motel off the anypike. In the last 2 years I've used Adult Friend Finder twice and was sucessful both times. on that webite, but THERE ARE A LOT OF REAL GIRLS on the site that are just trying to have sex too. Both times I met girls all I did was pop in my regional area chat room, jump in the conversation, found the youngest, closest girl (in my cases the first one was 19yo 10 miles away, the second was 23yo 3 miles away, I'm 28) exchanged Yahoo IM names (obviously private IM on AFF is a pay service), talk, meet up. The only way you can tell a girl is real is if she doesn't give it up on the first date.

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Ok if all you want is cyber sex with someone in the US - tried it but not for me although she didn't have a webcam!

Have chatted online on the IM system to dozens of more local women over the years - sometimes a one-off conversation, other times on a regular basis - most of the time it doesn't lead anywhere - and is frustrating because they're usually chatting to a number of men at the same time so the conversation is painfully slow.

The internet is populated with many fake and scam sites - with many being created daily purely to look genuine.

Even many review sites are tainted with fake reviews making it almost impossible for somedbody to detect a safe site from a scam.

On the great big, open, free information internet, there must be places adults get together to chat, maybe meet, maybe more.... FWIW my experience is that it depends on what effort you put in - I've tried a number of sites with various degrees of 'success' which depends of course on what you want!

I'm not looking for a hooker site, hookers are everywhere, I'm looking for a woman that just wants to play sometimes.... There are definately fake profiles on all of the sites I've tried but a bigger problem in my opinion is that the 'systems' send you loads of fake messages when you join for free in order that you'll then pay to join to answer these messages which then obviously leads nowhere...

A couple were fairly quick - chatted off and on for a few weeks or so, the other we had chatted for years and eventually it led to more!

Also had success on Illicit Encounters a few years back within a day of joining - paid - and met the same woman twice in a few days for hotel sex but that was the only success and even back then it was very expensive so cancelled after a month!!

However, with up to 50 percent of all marriages ending in divorce, that's not exactly the case anymore—and online dating platforms are well aware of this fact.

While we can't blame the online dating sites for creating this dilemma, these couples are aware of the choices they're making and the consequences that come with these decisions.

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