I half-joked that Jacqueline and I considered starting a dating site for men with E. because there were many women who would love to be their mate.And that’s when this meeting took an interesting turn…First, some back story, before we get to that unexpected twist that happened at the end of my talk.

We all are looking for love in one fashion or another, so what is it that separates a marriage minded millionaire from a Sugar daddy seeking a short term relationship such as sugar baby dating. The traditional Sugar daddy is usually a man of means that is looking for a relationship in which he can become the mentor or benefactor of a younger attractive woman and assist her in experiencing a more lavish lifestyle, one that she most likely could not attain on her own.

To this point, the Sugar daddy and the marriage minded millionaire can be very similar in their dating habits and the types of women that they choose to keep company with; however, it is after this point that the differences become more obvious.

The traditional Sugar daddy relationship usually does not go much beyond a mutually beneficial arrangement where it is basically fun and frolic dating with all expenses paid for the young lady, and the gentleman enjoying the company of an attractive young woman.

The marriage minded millionaire is looking for more than that.

As a fully impotent cancer survivor with a female partner, we have been speaking to men, women and couples about sex, intimacy and relationships for years.

Given that our own relationship fulfillment (emotional and sexual) continues to be beyond our most ardent dreams, we are always curious to see if other couples where the man has impotency are having a similar experience. Every woman we have interviewed over the years who has been with a man with E. or full impotence –and who has not slipped into despair or victimhood, describes them as “The world’s greatest lovers!” Okay, I know, this sounds very self-serving given my condition, but stay with me and you will see why this response is not that unusual.Perhaps this one very attractive woman in her mid-40’s said it best: My boyfriend (at the time) had a temporary bout of E. and became the greatest and most considerate lover I’ve ever had.This is not to say that she can't be significantly younger or from a completely different socio-economic environment, but in general the marriage minded millionaire is looking for something more than a string of dates, he is trying to find his own security and stability in the form of a spouse.– – –See the author’s TEDx Talk on Creating Extraordinary Intimacy in a Shut Down World– – –One of the more rewarding things my Partner Jacqueline and I do is speak to cancer survivors and their partners around the country about regaining intimacy in the face of their cancer.It is the way we are genetically wired to spread our seed far and wide and often as possible as part of the grand plan to propagate the species.