As we saw at the beginning a man can fall victim to the testing or get angry with it. He can, however, take it in his stride, be a rock, be sure of himself and let her swirl around him. There is no control involved, just openness and freedom, on both sides. Dick is angry and doesn’t respect women, he fails because he will always be fighting her.Harry treats her with respect but also respects himself. They started off feeling attracted to him, then when they acted ‘moody’ he saw it as a sign that he need to fill an emotional need in them. When they acted ‘moody’ with him he just walked away, he thought that if a woman doesn’t want to be with you, that was that.

Be aware of it when it happens and deal with it in a way that gains you authority and understanding in the relationship. I become nervous when I am not being tested by my partner.

She loves me and she wants to show it, she wants to feel safe with me, she wants to know if I love her.

This is not meant cruelly, but to help the man see who he really is and what he needs to do to become worthy of her.

This is a serious issue that needs to be treated with care by a man.

She needs to find a man that she can’t take for granted, he is not a push-over. She wants to see how strong emotionally he is, how smart he is.

She wants the certainty that a man cares for her and wants to protect her.The women became aloof and were, eventually, repulsed by him. He saw intimate relationships as a power-play of status, sexual rights and control. Harry had a secure long-term relationship and found women constantly interested in him.When his woman acted ‘moody’ he listened and gave her the space to talk.I write about being a man, creativity and intentional living. Connect the dots in your life, experience your inner power and be in control of your life. Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.It is not solvable by the man (men, don’t try to solve it! ♦◊♦ The more a man passes a woman’s test, the more intimacy he achieves with her, the more he is trusted by her.